Wednesday, April 25, 2007

*WHICH IS THE GREATER SEX???*

Now that puts me in2 a dubious confusion.
the thing is, 2day as i came online in d morning, i met a senior 4m my skool(one i passed out 2yrs bak). we were jus' having a random conversation when dunno how, the thots n' discussions drifted over to who is of the greater sex? a guy? or a gal?
now u see that's a difficult question when viewed 4m every aspect, but to simplify things i must let u knw that v were discussing which sex is more committed towards a relationship- devoted towards his/her spouse.
The question might seem simple, but the answer is pretty difficult to have. v cant safely assume that,"yes!guys ditch a lot more than girls do!" or 4 dat matter, "gals can never make up 4 d commitment given by guys."
therez no specific answer to it. so my question is, how can anybody fathom the answer with so much clarity? person of one sex regards that of the other with discrimination on this basis...now how can they be so sure as2 who is more committed n' who is not?yes i agree, pitfalls come in everybody's life, but is it right to blame it on d whole community?

10 comments:

Sam said...

well kiddo, dats a perennial problem. it is basically an extension of teh war of teh sexes.at eth end of teh day the commitment can be equal or one of them can surge ahead...... so one really can't sit back and say "guys bttr/girls bttr". as far ur last point goes, well dats simple naivety!! or repeated hurt dat speaks........ such ppl r defficult to be won over, but once on ur side... dey r urs!!
trust me.........

gini said...

well u knw..just like u cant clap with one hand similarily u cant blame single gender for all the wrng doings..so the battle continues..lol!!

Dazzy said...

u r ryt sam...
but i guess i can count on wat miss gini has 2 say

Sam said...

kiddo, we both r saying the same thing!! lol..........

Dazzy said...

oh yea sam..bt u knw...d way of telling d same thing is diff...poori baat samajh liya karo na

Ritlu said...

For a relationship to work out, both sides have to give their full commitment, and not just anyone side. If that happens, then the relationship won't last for long. And as far as who is greater in this regard -- Boys or gurls -- well, there will never be possible to answer. Bcoz, both are equal -- noone greater, no one lesser! Just becoz of a few particular isolated incidents, there can't be any generality that boys are better or gurls are.

In my opinion,just like in the INDIAN cricket team, we don't need stars, but team men for our team to win, so also in a relationship, both boys and gurls have to keep this mind that noone is greater than the other, so better stop the HUM TUM ki ladhaai, jab TUM hi nahin rahoge, to HUM ki bhi koi value nahin rahegi.

Like someone has said here, taali maarne ke liye, dono haatton ki jarurat hoti hei, so boys and gurls should just patch up and let this world going!!

Aashi Joshi said...

yeh well another nice debate on the "war of the sexes" as namesake put it :P lol
n ginz is ryt taali toh dono haatho se bajti hai..so realy cnt blame one in such cases..but as a woman we wont understnd a man..and tend to blame his insensitivities lol

as a man..errr..well really he shud put tht point across but i guess men consider woman confusing and well not strait fwd so for them that kinda hampers the relationship u knw


btw nice to find ur blog varsh :)
keep posting

Dazzy said...

well aash, i gs u ryt...its d misunderstanding dat stands in d way of confusions...wat say sam? n' i gs gini 2 wud agree wimme

vibhor said...

well to be honest according to me dis depends on person to person..u cnt blame d whole community if one guy ditches a gal or a gal gives les commitments ..more often dan nt the reverse also happens!..js like dis eg: if deres one bad egg in a basket it dosnt meanke all d eggs will be bad...basically yar its d person's own level of maturity n understanding n trust which holds a realationship...n dis thing can be totally diff fr two guys or can even be same fr d oppsex also!

Dazzy said...

u r ryt vibhor bt wat i posted was jus' a confusion..i dun bame anybdy in particular..i jus' want a confusion cleared my frnd...